One private app
for every person
you actually love.
DearUs gives couples, families, and close friends a dedicated private space — with messaging, shared photos, voice notes, a secret vault, daily check-ins, and more. Everything WhatsApp and Instagram can't do, because they weren't built for intimacy.
Which plan is
right for you?
Answer 3 quick questions — we'll show you exactly which DearUs plan fits your relationship and what you'll get.
Who would you mainly use DearUs with?
Pick the one that fits best — you can always add more circles later.
What matters most to you in a private space?
You can pick the one that resonates most — or the one you don't have yet.
How would you describe your situation?
This helps us show you the most relevant plan and features.
Everything the big apps
won't give you — in one place
DearUs is a complete private relationship platform. No ads. No algorithm deciding what your partner sees. Just the tools that actually matter for staying close.
Going through a
breakup? We've got you.
The Healing Space is a private, judgment-free tool designed for one thing: helping you stay no-contact and actually move forward. Day counter, milestone celebrations, grounding exercises, breathing tools, and an AI companion that responds like a real person — not a script. Available exclusively on DearUs.
Included on Solo, Family & Friendship plans — starting at just $4.99/mo.
A journal of your
relationship, built together
DateBook is a shared relationship journal you and your circle build together. Log your first date, last Sunday's hike, the fight you got through, the Tuesday that meant everything. Attach photos. Add notes. Build an archive of your relationship you'll actually read back through — years from now, you'll be so glad you did.
Separate private spaces
for every relationship
DearUs isn't just for couples. Create a dedicated circle for your partner, your family, your closest friends — each completely private and separate. One subscription, every relationship that matters.
Set up in 2 minutes.
Stay close for years.
Real people.
Real results.
Built from love.
Kept alive through it.
DearUs began the way most things worth building do — in the middle of a relationship, in the middle of the night, trying to solve a real problem.
She and He were building something together. Not just DearUs — a life, a vision, a private world they were proud of. They believed that the people closest to you deserve more than a group chat buried inside an app designed to keep you scrolling. They wanted something honest. Something that actually held the weight of real intimacy.
Then he left.
She kept building.
And somewhere in the grief of losing a partner and the stubborn refusal to lose the dream too, the Healing Space was born. Because she needed it. Because maybe you do too.
DearUs exists because love is worth protecting — and because healing from the loss of it is one of the hardest, most necessary things a person can do.
Less than a coffee.
For every relationship you have.
All plans include every feature — messaging, vault, gallery, check-ins, calendar, and more. You choose the plan based on how many people are in your circle.
- Every feature unlocked
- Private diary & secret vault
- Personal calendar
- Healing Space + AI companion
- Up to 3 circles
- Zero ads, forever
- Everything in Solo
- 2 members (you + partner)
- Shared secret vault & gallery
- Real-time chat with presence
- Daily rituals & questions
- Partner invite code
- Everything in Solo
- Up to 4 members
- Group circles & chat
- Shared shopping lists
- Group calendar & event planning
- Everything in Friends
- Up to 7 members
- Live location sharing
- Family circle features
- Priority support
- Everything in Family
- Up to 8 members
- Flexible relationship structures
- Custom circle names & settings
- Advanced permissions
- Everything in Polycule
- Up to 10 members
- Work-safe feature set
- Admin controls
- Dedicated support
Free trial included · Secure payments via Stripe · Cancel anytime, no questions asked
We don't sell your
relationship to advertisers
DearUs makes money from subscriptions — not from your data. What happens in your circle stays in your circle. No ads targeting you based on what you said to your partner. No algorithm. No social graph. Just the people you invited.
Everything you need
to know before you start
Find support,
wherever you are.
Whether you're a professional who works with couples, an organisation that supports our communities, or someone looking for real-world relationship resources — we've got a space for you.
deserve a real home —
not just a group chat.
Start your private circle today. No ads, no algorithm, no data selling — just the people you chose and everything you need to stay genuinely close. From $4.99/mo. Cancel anytime.
For Couples
The private couple app built for real intimacy — not social media. Daily check-ins, shared vault, voice notes, a secret photo gallery, and anniversary tracking. Perfect for long-distance relationships and couples who want to stay genuinely close without Big Tech in the middle.
For Families
A private family messaging app that replaces scattered group chats. Shared calendar, shopping lists, photo gallery, and live location — all in one private space your family actually owns. No ads, no strangers, no algorithm.
For Close Friends
A private group messaging app for people who are done with WhatsApp, group texts, and Instagram DMs. No ads, no algorithm deciding what your friends see. Just your circle, your memories, and your plans — privately.
Healing After a Breakup
A private no-contact tracker and breakup support app with an AI companion powered by Claude. Track your healing milestones, use grounding and breathing exercises, and stay no-contact — with a tool that actually responds like it understands. Available from $4.99/mo.
Long Distance & Privacy
Best long distance relationship app 2026. LDR couple app. Private couple app no ads. WhatsApp alternative for couples. iMessage alternative for partners. Couples app with no data selling. Encrypted chat for couples. Privacy-first relationship app. GDPR compliant couple app. Ad-free messaging for families. Secure private messaging app.
Polyamory & LGBTQ+
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Breakup & Healing
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Features & Alternatives
Couples daily check-in app. Shared secret vault app. Anniversary tracker app. DateBook relationship journal. Voice notes for couples. Shared calendar couples. Family location sharing app. Couples shopping list. Private photo gallery app. Replace Google Photos private. Telegram alternative couples. Snapchat alternative private. Facebook Messenger alternative family. Discord alternative close friends.